Academics are difficult. The struggle with finding who you are and somehow figuring out what you want to spend the rest of your life doing is even harder. Of course, highschool takes both of these aspects and squishes them into three years (perfect, isn’t it?). The hardship that seems shackled to the word isn’t unfounded–highschool can be terribly hard and takes an impact on your mental state if you don’t know how to navigate it.
So, how does one manage it? The balancing of friendships, grades, fun, and a bit of mischief?
People.
The first step to navigating life in highschool is people. Specific and broad at the same time, isn’t it? Well, you want to find people you share common ground with. You may say, “Oh, find friends? Easier said than done.”
No.
Friends are one thing, but people who are a support system for you are another. Branch out, join classes that span multiple years. Find friendship in band, choir, student council, or any other extracurriculars. Having friends in multiple places allows you to not get caught up with one friend or friend group. Sounds trivial, but if you’ve already made your way through a few months of highschool you know exactly what I mean. Friends are important, don’t get me wrong, but your worth as a person should never rely on a single group of people’s opinion. Branch out and you’ll find yourself even steadier.
Now, classes, I know they’re hard. Sometimes it can feel like you’ve finally freed yourself just to get another disappointing grade back. Yes, especially if you were a student who got past middle school without breaking an effort. I’m sure you were a bit (more than a bit, let’s be real) surprised by how just paying attention in class doesn’t work anymore. Yet, there’s one thing you can do to not be shocked by results, and to ensure your parents don’t have to shake their heads as they read your first high school report card.
Rethink and research your standards.
Going into highschool blind isn’t the smartest, especially when it comes to grades. The levels of expectation are shockingly different. So, do some research! Look at the average marks in your courses, look at provincial averages and how difficult the course is compared to others. Doing that research beforehand can ensure you understand just where you stand.
Incorporating both these concepts into your life can ensure a steadier, more enjoyed, and a funner high school experience. But, don’t take it from me. You will only witness change if you make it.
